- Arrive promptly for your appointment. “Prompt” does NOT mean early. If you are running a few minutes early, you may text to ask if we may begin early. If I’m unable to accommodate, please find a discreet parking space a few blocks away until your appointed time.
- If you are running late, please contact me as soon as possible. I offer generous grace for tardiness if you provide updates. However, extreme tardiness may shorten the length of your session. Respect my time as I respect yours and plan ahead.
- Dress discreetly in “vanilla” attire when arriving and leaving my studio. (Feel free to wear hidden toys or lingerie underneath!
- Arrive sober, and do not bring drugs or weapons into my space
- Do not wear cologne, body spray, or heavy scents, or I may ask you to shower. Do use deodorant.
- Upon arrival I will take you to the bathroom to wash your hands and use mouthwash, and invite you to freshen up or shower. If you’re uncertain, err on the side of cleanliness. You may also shower at the end of our time together. I provide a selection of unscented shower products, mouthwash, toothbrushes, and other basic hygiene items.
- Prior to your appointment, we will do some negotiation via email. When you arrive we’ll spend a few moments discussing your desires, limits, physical and mental state, and what we’ll be doing during our session.
- In the playroom, my word is law, and I expect obedience. I do not demand unquestioning submission, but I do require good manners and compliance with my wishes.
- If you have symptoms of any contagious illness (cold, norovirus, COVID-19, etc) near our date, or have had a known exposure within 14 days, please contact me to assess risk and discuss rescheduling (and I will do the same). I’d much rather keep our germs to ourselves and plan for a better time.
Ready and eager to explore with me?
Proceed to my contact page and follow the instructions there. To demonstrate that you have read the entirety of this page, and to arouse my interest in you, include the title of your favorite book in your initial email. Hardly any new playmates do this, so you will set yourself apart!